You're One Of The Man Dem

One Of The Man Dem && I

So the last time I was in a relationship was two years ago, and before than a year before. As you can see I am not keen on relationships unless I really like someone or I plan on taking it very seriously. Now I know that being yourself is the ultimate way to attract somebody, but I dont know what it is that I do that I become one of the "boys". And this crazy shit usually happens when I am really into a guy and then after a while I lose the feelings of attraction because they do become my friends. [Just so everybody knows that is not the case with all my guy friends]. I tweeted about this not to long ago so I had to address the issue starting by saying

I AM NOT ONE OF THE BOYS, I AM A FEMALE

Don't take this the wrong way it's just that you know what some days I want to be treated like a female, alot of the time I don't want to hear about what girl you had sex with it. And when I say hello female standing here, dont shoo my answer and say, "Naw but you cool though, you are like one of the man dem". . .yu get an automatic one of these -___- #dontplaywithme. Not that I dont like being one of the "man dem" but I think because I am always around yu brute mofos I forget how the hell to be a female #YIKES! Therefore, making me a little to real and will forever be stuck in The Friend Zone (song by 88 keys youtube it).

One of the craziest things that was ever said to me was by one of my older brother's close friend he said, "Vanessa you will never have a man because you just know to much". At first I was really offended but I look back at that and laugh with a bit of a sting, is that really going to be my reality or am I just reading into things a little too hard. I know that this doesn't happen to just me but it happens to others. Don't take this as a complaint or me wanting a relationship it's just a rant . . . #kanyeshrug. But I still proudly take on the role of one of the man dem until I find a dude that's not one of the man dem. . .did that make sense?

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