Friday, February 26, 2010

But Why Are Haters Being Praised


Hello Hello back from midterms so I think I can squeeze in a post chyea!

The topic at hand is HATERS. Trust me it gives me great disdain to even talk about them because they are not relevant, but the bigger issue is the people who THINK they have haters and are constantly giving them shine. Not to mention what the HELL is the true definition of a "HATER"? Lets start with the definition from my point of view a "HATER" is someone who hates on someone or something just because or for the sheer satisfaction of hating. And yes there are some people out here that either know they are haters and enjoy being haters or some ppl that are haters but mask it with an opinion [and believe me opinions usually have valid reasons].

Haters to me are insignificant people that dont do anything for me, they aren't making me money, they aint providing me any basic necessities so why do they even matter. I remember @ a time I use to think that haters are really your greatest motivators. Then as I am growing up I am realizing they are not worth shit. I think it took formspring and me lookin @ some of the most despicable things people have to say. Like really yu are sitting here talking a whole gang of shit while that person is progressing at life and doing what he/she has to do, how does that make yu feel about yourself. Haters are nothing more than people that love to see ppl not succeed because they are not succeeding and yu know what that is a really sad mentality to have. Once again I don't know why I am giving these ppl any type of shine they r wack.

Now for the ppl that are being "hated on" personally I think everybody is obsessed with having groupies and haters and the lines are being a little bit blurred. In terms of groupies I think anybody with sense should know what a groupie is and the difference between someone who wants a piece of yu as opposed to being a genuine fan and only hoping for the best for yu. As with haters yu need to know the difference because there r ppl who legit have constructive critcism to make yu better and other ppl that just want to being yu down. I think the new trend is to have a gang of haters and to always show out. I hate to be the ones to tell yu guys, yu r jus as ridiculous as them. Parading around how much "HATERS" yu have will do nothing for yu expect garner more haters and maybe turn your fans into haters because ur prioritizing horribly! So take a step back and see what yu got, those HATERS yu are always talking about didn't get yu where yu are at it was the ppl who believed in yu and ur own passion that brought you this far. Not only is this haters are motivation saying ridiculous its kinda getting played out.

Do I have haters? I don't think so. Do I have fans? I hope so. Do I want to succeed with this thing called blogging? Yu darn skippy I want to. But I'm telling you from this day forward I will not let haters or the dream of having an army of haters get to me because they don't matter, in my household we are motivated by motivation to do better, if ppl don't like yu oh fuckin well, its not like it mattered in the first place if yu are focused with what you want to do. Like I always say it never matters to me whether or not yu like me because one yu have to make that choice of whether or not yu like me and two it won't make me or break me. The only ppl who deserve any recognition in my eyes are ppl who want the best for yu and those are your fans, those r the real motivation. Like my older brother likes to say "I Do What I Want, Yu Do What Yu Can ", I do what I want and others do what they can if they are upset by it oh well.

2 comments:

  1. THANKYOU NESSSAAAAAAAA! I understand that there are some people who really and truly may feel they have 'haters' and people that honestly set aside time to ridicule this person but going around letting everybody know 'I LOVE MY HATERS' is annoying..Just because somebody didn't like your outfit or maybe just doesn't wanna be your friend doesn't make them a hater! At least,that's how I feel.Suddenly having "groupies&haters" is the livest thing ever..People that constantly talk about haters and groupies overtime just evolve to seeming cocky to me...KEEP DOING YOUR THING NESSA,I SUPPORT YOUUUUU!

    <3<3<3
    Your secret admirer aka Day Owl :)

    PS "Wait till they see my smile" by Alicia Keys <3 LOVE THAT SONG!Don't know if you've listened to it but it kind of relates to this topic

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  2. awww thanx for commenting it means the world and yes I am glad it related to yu

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