Have A Baby By Me Baby Be A Millionaire. . .I Think!

Hello Hello It feels sooo good to be back again on blogspot and eating up my chewy bar. It's a good monday morning real shit! Anywho next blog entry. . .

So I don't know if anybody has noticed but this is the new baby boom era, lots of babies are being born and it's just blessings and miracles everywhere. But I'm not gonna sit here and act like its all good because many of the people that are having babies are babies themselves. Not to discredit the young people that had children and are taking care of their children shout to them because it takes a lot of hard work, but there are still the others that bring about the stereotype of the baby momma baby daddy scenario. Me, personally I think having a baby when yu know yu are not financially stable is very selfish especially if yu are an adult, but when it comes to young girls and guys having children I sit in the middle. Honestly shit happens yu know condoms do break, yu get into it yu forget, and other things. But there are so much contraceptives and alternatives that people should know about just because we are in a more informative world, there are condoms (both male and female), birth control, for when all else fails the morning after pill, and last but not least abstinence. Like I said shit does happen and there are some things that you can't control, but then yu have the OTHERS.

When I talk about the others I mean the girls and guys that have sex going in raw (without protection) knowing that they shouldn't be doing it but they do it anyways. Or the males or females that honestly want to trap someone into having a baby (yes men do it too). Either way both sides of the spectrum are not good just because being pregnant should be the last of your worries, there are things such as STIs and STDs that can effect ur health and if you are pregnant put your child's life in danger. I think sometimes people don't get the serious nature of having a child, it's very hard and it's very tiring, especially as a woman. My mom had me and my 3 other siblings between the ages of 22-35 approximately and every time she had one of us she would always cry because not only is there stress she has to deal with being in pain and the hormonal imbalance which can sometimes lead to postpartum depression. Knowing that you are still a teen and your body hasn't all the way matured yet and you have a kid there might be some health risks involved.

Also I have to address something that also really disturbed me one day I was on facebook and somebody had said that more young ppl need to have more babies to put more money into the economy and that right there was a PAUSE. . .whylin with a mix of C'MON SON! Does that statement even make sense like really yu are trying to tell me that more young ppl having babies is suppose to help the economy. When more and more teens and young ppl that can barely take care of themselves are having children and are in need of goivernment assistance whether it be welfare or things of that nature how does that really help the economy. Like the saying goes in order to help someone else yu need to be able to help yourself, and if someone with a child can barely do for themselves how does it help anyone. Those are the moments when I say people need to think before they start typing, that was a true But Hold That Thought moment. But having baby isn't a bad thing when having it young it's just a detour from the path yu intended on following and there are people out there that sacrifice for their children and try to do their best to better themselves.

I have friends that have babies and they are young but they are some of the greatest mothers that I have seen because they seen that keeping a baby would be a life altering decision and decided that they wouldn't let a baby get them down. But instead will let them keep fighting for themselves and their children, so alot of these mothers I give kudos to, because I understand things happen and many of times keeping a baby wouldn't be the most ideal choice for many, but they are keeping it and taking care of their children while going to school and/or working. No it isn't the most ideal life that many of them had planned for but they make it work because they know they have to. So for that they get a special hug and a shoutout for being a good mom. The same goes out for the good fathers out there because with things like the Maury show showing the negative men that come on to the show acting like they have no piece of sense denying the baby up and down acting like they have no home training and not all men are like that. I am not saying that yu have to be with your baby moms to be a good father, as long as yu are taking care of your kids and being there for them on every level possible then yu are doing a great job and for that I commend yu.

Well to end this off I would like to say that teen pregnancy is a very touchy issue for me because there are times I see friends of mine do whatever they need to do to provide for their child and sometimes it hurts me because I see them struggle. But at the same time I see the resilience and it makes me very proud of them. But nonetheless when something can be avoided try your hardest not to get stuck in that situation because at the day with every choice made there is a consequence whether good or bad. So if yu are having sex please wrap it up because pregnancy shouldn't be the ONLY thing yu need to be worried about.

Follow Me On Twitter: @nessaholdthat

Speak Your Mind, But Hold That Thought!