But Why Are Haters Being Praised

Hello Hello back from midterms so I think I can squeeze in a post chyea!

The topic at hand is HATERS. Trust me it gives me great disdain to even talk about them because they are not relevant, but the bigger issue is the people who THINK they have haters and are constantly giving them shine. Not to mention what the HELL is the true definition of a "HATER"? Lets start with the definition from my point of view a "HATER" is someone who hates on someone or something just because or for the sheer satisfaction of hating. And yes there are some people out here that either know they are haters and enjoy being haters or some ppl that are haters but mask it with an opinion [and believe me opinions usually have valid reasons].

Haters to me are insignificant people that dont do anything for me, they aren't making me money, they aint providing me any basic necessities so why do they even matter. I remember @ a time I use to think that haters are really your greatest motivators. Then as I am growing up I am realizing they are not worth shit. I think it took formspring and me lookin @ some of the most despicable things people have to say. Like really yu are sitting here talking a whole gang of shit while that person is progressing at life and doing what he/she has to do, how does that make yu feel about yourself. Haters are nothing more than people that love to see ppl not succeed because they are not succeeding and yu know what that is a really sad mentality to have. Once again I don't know why I am giving these ppl any type of shine they r wack.

Now for the ppl that are being "hated on" personally I think everybody is obsessed with having groupies and haters and the lines are being a little bit blurred. In terms of groupies I think anybody with sense should know what a groupie is and the difference between someone who wants a piece of yu as opposed to being a genuine fan and only hoping for the best for yu. As with haters yu need to know the difference because there r ppl who legit have constructive critcism to make yu better and other ppl that just want to being yu down. I think the new trend is to have a gang of haters and to always show out. I hate to be the ones to tell yu guys, yu r jus as ridiculous as them. Parading around how much "HATERS" yu have will do nothing for yu expect garner more haters and maybe turn your fans into haters because ur prioritizing horribly! So take a step back and see what yu got, those HATERS yu are always talking about didn't get yu where yu are at it was the ppl who believed in yu and ur own passion that brought you this far. Not only is this haters are motivation saying ridiculous its kinda getting played out.

Do I have haters? I don't think so. Do I have fans? I hope so. Do I want to succeed with this thing called blogging? Yu darn skippy I want to. But I'm telling you from this day forward I will not let haters or the dream of having an army of haters get to me because they don't matter, in my household we are motivated by motivation to do better, if ppl don't like yu oh fuckin well, its not like it mattered in the first place if yu are focused with what you want to do. Like I always say it never matters to me whether or not yu like me because one yu have to make that choice of whether or not yu like me and two it won't make me or break me. The only ppl who deserve any recognition in my eyes are ppl who want the best for yu and those are your fans, those r the real motivation. Like my older brother likes to say "I Do What I Want, Yu Do What Yu Can ", I do what I want and others do what they can if they are upset by it oh well.

He Really Is In His Zone

Well I am back again to tell yu that the R&B mixtape yu have to have is Chris Brown's In My Zone that is hosted by DJ Drama and DJ Sense. I got a chance to listen to the mixtape and let me tell yu it's BANG-ING! Like from start to finish, so LiiVE. The download link is on the pic if it still doesn't redirect yu its in the the title of the mixtape above. Enjoy :)

1000 Homie :)

Yaaaa! I've reached 1000 hits. This is a big accomplishment for me and I want to thank everybody for their support and everything. Once again thanx a bunch for reading, commenting, and supporting. If yu have a blogger account plz subscribe, if yu have facebook join my group But Hold That Thought and follow me on twitter @nessaholdthat.

P.S.:Happy Chinese New Year && Valentine's Day xoxo

Alexander McQueen: Avante-Garde Fashion Has Lost A Great One

           Rest In Fashionable Peace Alexander McQueen (1969-2010)

Unless yu are not really in tune with fashion that's understandable but if yu are not in tune with music and yu dont know who this man is, something must be wrong with yu. Alexander McQueen is one of fashion's rebels with his flamboyant and sometimes crazy avante-garde fashion creations, Rihanna and Lady Gaga (especially Lady Gaga) are one of the many celebrities that have frequently worn some of his creations. Today he died this morning at only 40 years old inside his house in London.

The reason why I am doing this post is not because he is dead but it's because his creativity is moving as much as anybody wants to get on Lady Gaga for wearing his clothing, he was creatively inclined and thought outside the box. Fashion doesn't always have to be trendy nor does it have to make sense sometimes it just need to be looked at as a great piece of art and be appreciated. So Alexander McQueen we salute yu for all yu have done for the fashion world, this is a great lost.

Interesting Tidbit: Alexander McQueen tailored a suit for Charles "The Prince of Wales" and he wrote the words "I am a cunt" in biro inside the the lining of the suit. They didn't call him "l'enfant terrible" (the hooligan of English fashion) for nothing.

I Knew It Was A Lot Longer

Well this has got to be one of my favourite Common song/video. This video comes to hard shit shud've been a movie but meh it is what it is

Being A Good Samaritan Is Not Always Good

Well here goes another blog posting and after this I might be finished for the rest of this month, but yes I have another bone to pick again. Honestly I think that I have turned into a complainer but whatever this is my blog and I will cry if I want to :'(. . .

Anyways sometimes the black race catches a lot of flack because we are often stereotyped to be very horrible people, whether we may be ignorant, violent, uneducated and what have you. Either way we are not always portrayed in the best light. So when I feel that I am in a position to really help get out other people (especially in the music scene) and get their stuff heard and what not I will do that because it is good to always lend a helping hand that is why certain regions will have a hot music scene because everybody is willing to support. Now thats all fine and dandy, but there will always be that few that ruin it for everybody like I mean why is that there will always be those group of black folks that dont know how to act and perpetuate stereotypes and still expect yu to help them. If there is something that I truly dislike in this world, that is ignorance because on some real ish it's never good look because it looks so bad.

A couple of events that have happened in the last two months let me see that when yu try to help a group of people especially if it is your own people it can either go both ways really good or realllllllyyyyy bad. Either way both play into ridiculous extremes where it doesnt have to be like that but in the last two months I have been seeing alot of bad! Not to say that everybody is hopeless but it is never a good look and then they wonder why people say, "black people can't have nothing", with Barack Obama in office it shouldn't be the deciding fact of whether or not you are going to grow back but lets be real, now that we do have a black president that is a million times more reason and motivation to do better even if it is not on a grand scale. With people always perpetuating these ridiculous stereotypes of being ignorant or trying to be hard by pulling out a gun is never a good look so like seriously get over yourself and stop acting like a chich and learn how to be a stand up person.

Anyways this prolly the last pof my rants plus a chick like me is tired so I holla :)

WTF Is Formspring?

I can't sleep and I am trying to write this outline for my essay and it aint even working for me maybe I should talk about my new love/hate relationship to formspring.First of all let me just start by saying that I do have a formspring account and I have only been asked one question but it was an inside joke from a friend but that's neither here nor there LOL. But yes I am not going to preach so let me just go with what I'm about to say.

First off I have the most extreme disdain for people that like to talk garbage behind one another's back because first of all it is not attractive second of all it just shows what type of person you are period. Now with this new social networking device called formspring I feel that it is a new way of talking shit to people that yu do not like but never had the teabags to say it to their face or even behind their back. I think some days it's totally ridiculous how some people will go on this thing and insult people they dont know or jus flat out hate on somebody. And I know hate is a subjective word because EVERYBODY thinks that they have haters (and I am not one of them) but personally I feel that if you are going to go on formspring to tell someone that they are sleww ting or tell them that they are beat (whether or not they are) yu are classified under my books as a HATER! Like it goes to show that yu have too much time on your hands and clearly wished yu were that person because I have seen people on my friends list that have formspring and I have seen people out right disrespect them and they ppl they are disrespecting are actually cool peoples or probably even in a relationship (which really makes even less sense for yu to be callin them a slew). All I am saying is that if yu are really gonna talk shit or whatever at least have the decency be all the way 200 with it nd if yu are really bad put your name underneath so we know who the fuck yu are. Like honestly it is 2010 and I hate using the new year cliche but on some real shit people need to grow the heck up, it aint cute.

Second, another bone I have to pick is the girls that ask the guys such personal sexual questions like, "Do yu eat?" (like honestly what male in their right mind will answer that on twitter or facebook like GTFOH) or "How big is your dick" and what have yu. Honestly I cant get the idea out of my head that it might be some desperate girl or a groupie that has never got a good dick down by a dude, so they come off as raunchy and a bit whorish, but then again it is your prerogative. As for the males that answer it, I guess it gives a little boost to your ego or what not but nonetheless yu guys are brave for answering some of these questions, but then again I think it would probably be fun for yu guys. But nonetheless that shit aint really a good look either and I can understand why yu wud want to stay anonymous but even so it is funny how yu will still talk some nonsense behind a monitor and a keyboard.

Meh, to me formspring is not that big of a deal because it all depends on what yu will answer and what yu will not answer, plus it can be all in good fun if people just have fun with it. There is no need to take it the next level of hating or talking a whole bunch of unnecessary foolishness. But then again this is the age of the e-thug or internet gangster. Yah I might catch some flack for it but I am not really concerned because I am comfortable with people not liking me less people to say hi to :). So yes this is my rant but I doubt it will be my last for today

Speak Your Mind, But Hold That Thought!

Holay He Kinda Ill. . .Wait He's 16?

So i was on worldstar and look at what I found this dude is effin talented 10 Mins of Gold!

When The Angels Call Like

Its A New Light Its Another Day

Watch Young Girl Get On Her Knees && Pray

Superficial Reality, Materialistic Dreams

She Is Waiting For Someone or Something

Lambourghini Doors Go Up Like Wings

Sound System Made Her Angels Sing

He Wanted Her && He Needed Her

She Liked Him She Didn't Know Better

He Said His Name Was Damien

He Was Her Everything. Yu Know Morning Star 

He Told Her With Him She Can Go Far

Crucifux Tatt'd On Her Body 

Damien Tatt'd In Her Soul

Everywhere She Turned He stood Very Bold

She Was Married To Him && Lusted For A Lifestyle

Sacred Were Her Possessions While Cheating On Her Soul

When She Got Tired, She Wanted To Leave 

Damien Said, Where Yu Going, Your Soul Belongs To Me

Now She Sittin In The Same Spot Praying On Her Knees

Its A Long Shot But She Needs To Breathe

Its The Lies && The Illusions That Brought About The Suffocation

She Says A Prayer && Wonders if Her Angels Are Listening

Have A Baby By Me Baby Be A Millionaire. . .I Think!

Hello Hello It feels sooo good to be back again on blogspot and eating up my chewy bar. It's a good monday morning real shit! Anywho next blog entry. . .

So I don't know if anybody has noticed but this is the new baby boom era, lots of babies are being born and it's just blessings and miracles everywhere. But I'm not gonna sit here and act like its all good because many of the people that are having babies are babies themselves. Not to discredit the young people that had children and are taking care of their children shout to them because it takes a lot of hard work, but there are still the others that bring about the stereotype of the baby momma baby daddy scenario. Me, personally I think having a baby when yu know yu are not financially stable is very selfish especially if yu are an adult, but when it comes to young girls and guys having children I sit in the middle. Honestly shit happens yu know condoms do break, yu get into it yu forget, and other things. But there are so much contraceptives and alternatives that people should know about just because we are in a more informative world, there are condoms (both male and female), birth control, for when all else fails the morning after pill, and last but not least abstinence. Like I said shit does happen and there are some things that you can't control, but then yu have the OTHERS.

When I talk about the others I mean the girls and guys that have sex going in raw (without protection) knowing that they shouldn't be doing it but they do it anyways. Or the males or females that honestly want to trap someone into having a baby (yes men do it too). Either way both sides of the spectrum are not good just because being pregnant should be the last of your worries, there are things such as STIs and STDs that can effect ur health and if you are pregnant put your child's life in danger. I think sometimes people don't get the serious nature of having a child, it's very hard and it's very tiring, especially as a woman. My mom had me and my 3 other siblings between the ages of 22-35 approximately and every time she had one of us she would always cry because not only is there stress she has to deal with being in pain and the hormonal imbalance which can sometimes lead to postpartum depression. Knowing that you are still a teen and your body hasn't all the way matured yet and you have a kid there might be some health risks involved.

Also I have to address something that also really disturbed me one day I was on facebook and somebody had said that more young ppl need to have more babies to put more money into the economy and that right there was a PAUSE. . .whylin with a mix of C'MON SON! Does that statement even make sense like really yu are trying to tell me that more young ppl having babies is suppose to help the economy. When more and more teens and young ppl that can barely take care of themselves are having children and are in need of goivernment assistance whether it be welfare or things of that nature how does that really help the economy. Like the saying goes in order to help someone else yu need to be able to help yourself, and if someone with a child can barely do for themselves how does it help anyone. Those are the moments when I say people need to think before they start typing, that was a true But Hold That Thought moment. But having baby isn't a bad thing when having it young it's just a detour from the path yu intended on following and there are people out there that sacrifice for their children and try to do their best to better themselves.

I have friends that have babies and they are young but they are some of the greatest mothers that I have seen because they seen that keeping a baby would be a life altering decision and decided that they wouldn't let a baby get them down. But instead will let them keep fighting for themselves and their children, so alot of these mothers I give kudos to, because I understand things happen and many of times keeping a baby wouldn't be the most ideal choice for many, but they are keeping it and taking care of their children while going to school and/or working. No it isn't the most ideal life that many of them had planned for but they make it work because they know they have to. So for that they get a special hug and a shoutout for being a good mom. The same goes out for the good fathers out there because with things like the Maury show showing the negative men that come on to the show acting like they have no piece of sense denying the baby up and down acting like they have no home training and not all men are like that. I am not saying that yu have to be with your baby moms to be a good father, as long as yu are taking care of your kids and being there for them on every level possible then yu are doing a great job and for that I commend yu.

Well to end this off I would like to say that teen pregnancy is a very touchy issue for me because there are times I see friends of mine do whatever they need to do to provide for their child and sometimes it hurts me because I see them struggle. But at the same time I see the resilience and it makes me very proud of them. But nonetheless when something can be avoided try your hardest not to get stuck in that situation because at the day with every choice made there is a consequence whether good or bad. So if yu are having sex please wrap it up because pregnancy shouldn't be the ONLY thing yu need to be worried about.

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