Is It All Really Worth It?

I'm Baaaaaack! Hmm another controversial topic . . .

Well today is a new day soon to be a new night so i gotta discuss some new things on my mind. I'm going to talk about relationships and my whole take on them. I don't think everyone is made for it and I feel that many of us are in love with the idea of love and being with somebody. Me, personally I am on the fence about how I feel when it comes to myself and relationships because I feel like it is necessary because it let's you see another side of yourself when you are with someone and at the same time I don't believe in them because I feel that sometimes it is just temporary and so much time and energy is being put in it and it doesn't work out. The reason why I probably have negative and positive views on relationships is because of past experience and horrible mistakes made. Even so, I must agree that without relationships it is sort of hard to interact with the rest of society, so in that perspective it is needed. But in terms of love and relationships that's when things get tricky so I have to ask a couple of questions that I have never understood:

1. When in a relationship and you are with someone that you know you are not in love with, why not man up/woman up and break it up instead of cheating?

2. When you say you love someone, why do you cheat knowing that not only will it hurt your partner but will sit on your conscience?

3. Why try when there is nothing left?

4. Why claim to love someone but when mistakes are made say such hurtful words? Is the love you have REALLY UNCONDITIONAL

5. Is it impossible for one to forget a hurtful past, while trying to work on their future with another person? Or will it be a reoccurring cycle that never ends?

6. Is it possible for someone to really love another unconditionally after the infatuation is gone? Or is that what it is?

7. Is one really ever in love or IN LOVE with the IDEA of love?

Lastly, IS IT ALL REALLY WORTH IT?

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